LEBANON
" People are constantly trying to influence us, to tell us what to do, and just as often we tune them out, resisting their at presuasion. There is a , however in our lives, when we all act diffrently - when we are in love. we fall under a kind of spell. our minds are usually preoccupied with our own concerns; now they became filled with thoughts of the loved one. we grow emotional lose the ability to think straight, act in foolish ways that we would never do otherwise. If this goes on long enough something inside us gives way: we surrender to the will of the loved one, and our desire to possess them.
Seducers are person who understand the tremendous power contained in such moments of surrender. They analyse what happens when people are in love, study the psychological components of the process - what spurs the imagination, what casts a spell. By instinct and through practice they master the art of making people fall in love. As all great seducers know, it is much more effective to create love than lust. a person in love is emotional, pliable, and easily misled.
A person in lust is harder to control and, once satisfied, may easily leave you. Seducers take their time, create enchantment and the bonds of love, so that when sex ensues it only further enslaves the victim. Creating love and enchantment becomes the model for all seductions - sexual, social, political. A person in love will surrender.
It is pointless to try to argue against such power, to imagine that you are not interested in it, or that it is evil and ugly. The harder you try to resist the lure of seduction - as an idea, as a form of power - the more you will find yourself fascinated. The reason is simple: most of us have known the power of having someone fall in love with us. Our actions, gestures, the things we say, all have positive effects on this person; we may not completly understand what we have done right, but this feeling of power is intoxicating. It gives us confidence , which make us more seductive. We may also experience this in a social or work setting - one day, we are in an elevated mood and people seem more responsive, more charmed by us.
These moments of power are fleeting, but they resonate in the memory with great intensity. we want them back. The siren call of seduction is irresistible because power is irresistible, and nothing will bring you more power in the modern world than the ability to seduce.
To have such power does not require a total transformation in your character or any kind of physical improvement in your looks. Seduction is a game of psychology, not beauty, and it is within the grasp of any person to became a amster at the game.
All that is required is that you look at the world differently, through the eyes of a seducer.
Seducers are never self-absorved. Their gaze is directed outward, not inward. When they meet someone their first move is to get inside that person's skin, to see the world through theis eyes. Self-absorption is a sign of insecurity; it is anti-seductive. Everyone have insecurities, but seducers manage to ignore them, finding therapy for moments of self-doubt by being absorbed in the world.
This gives them a buoyant spirit - we want to be around them. Getting into someone´s skin, imagining what is like to be them, helps the seducer gather valuable information, learn wath makes that person tick, what will make them lose their ability to think straight and fall into a trap.
Seducers see them selves as providers of pleasure ..."
Seducers are person who understand the tremendous power contained in such moments of surrender. They analyse what happens when people are in love, study the psychological components of the process - what spurs the imagination, what casts a spell. By instinct and through practice they master the art of making people fall in love. As all great seducers know, it is much more effective to create love than lust. a person in love is emotional, pliable, and easily misled.
A person in lust is harder to control and, once satisfied, may easily leave you. Seducers take their time, create enchantment and the bonds of love, so that when sex ensues it only further enslaves the victim. Creating love and enchantment becomes the model for all seductions - sexual, social, political. A person in love will surrender.
It is pointless to try to argue against such power, to imagine that you are not interested in it, or that it is evil and ugly. The harder you try to resist the lure of seduction - as an idea, as a form of power - the more you will find yourself fascinated. The reason is simple: most of us have known the power of having someone fall in love with us. Our actions, gestures, the things we say, all have positive effects on this person; we may not completly understand what we have done right, but this feeling of power is intoxicating. It gives us confidence , which make us more seductive. We may also experience this in a social or work setting - one day, we are in an elevated mood and people seem more responsive, more charmed by us.
These moments of power are fleeting, but they resonate in the memory with great intensity. we want them back. The siren call of seduction is irresistible because power is irresistible, and nothing will bring you more power in the modern world than the ability to seduce.
To have such power does not require a total transformation in your character or any kind of physical improvement in your looks. Seduction is a game of psychology, not beauty, and it is within the grasp of any person to became a amster at the game.
All that is required is that you look at the world differently, through the eyes of a seducer.
Seducers are never self-absorved. Their gaze is directed outward, not inward. When they meet someone their first move is to get inside that person's skin, to see the world through theis eyes. Self-absorption is a sign of insecurity; it is anti-seductive. Everyone have insecurities, but seducers manage to ignore them, finding therapy for moments of self-doubt by being absorbed in the world.
This gives them a buoyant spirit - we want to be around them. Getting into someone´s skin, imagining what is like to be them, helps the seducer gather valuable information, learn wath makes that person tick, what will make them lose their ability to think straight and fall into a trap.
Seducers see them selves as providers of pleasure ..."
